Timothy P. Kubiak Obituary - Visitation & Funeral Information

When saying goodbye to someone so young, it hurts no matter who they are. So it is with deep sadness that we share with family and friends the passing of a young man of many talents, Timothy Paul Kubiak. He was unshackled, left his earthly bonds and set free at the age of 56 on February 6, 2021. Tim was born on October 4, 1964. It’s a great birthday to remember because you could always write in his card, ‘That’s a big 10-4 good buddy.’ He lived his youth in Cheektowaga, the son of Paul and Carol Kubiak. Tim’s sense of humor is one of the endearing things his Mom and Dad loved about him. He would play jokes, talk in silly voices, tease Grandma about her hair, and just do silly little things that made them feel loved, important, and wanted. Along with his loving parents, he is survived by his brothers Ronald aka Ronnie (Barbara), Gerald aka Gerry, and sister Tammy. Having many siblings and even more nieces and nephews (12 at last count) always lent itself to family gatherings of great celebration and excitement. You couldn’t walk into a room without Uncle Timmy cracking a joke or teasing you. He was the beloved husband of Cheryl (Gorny) aka Cutie Pie for 33 years. They were without a doubt the center of each other’s universes. They met at Uncles Sam’s in 1983. After dating for a short time and a dancing to their favorite 80s tunes the rest is history. Through thick and thin they embraced years of sunny times and weathered a few storms. Many favorite times were had together; annual surf and turf on New Year’s, summers in the backyard and swimming in the pool, throwing countless parties, taking the kids to sporting events, and Christmas mornings. So much to tell and remember. Their love and devotion to each other brought the lights of their lives, their daughter Ashlee (Kyle) and son Austin. He loved his children in many ways that only a dad can do. He was interested in their lives. Who were their friends, what they were interested in, what they doing, going…it’s a dad thing even if they didn’t know it. If traveling, were they safe, did they get there ok, when where they coming home. You can say that the amazing kids that they turned out to be is because of the love and experiences they had together. His wife and children were his whole life and the happiest parts of it. As his children grew all that caring he had eventually had to be shared with his puppy pal, Riley and his grand doggies Rosie and Milo. Tim’s artistic talent knew no bounds. He worked with many mediums throughout his entire life. Not just pencil and paint but wood, kitchen, garden, furniture, metal. His eye for beauty and transformation was astounding. In every piece he brought into existence with raw materials, you could see the expression of his joy. Even his education at JFK HS, Villa Maria college and career paths always had a taste of creative endeavors. Tim’s friends have countless stories to tell. Some you can’t print here. But most are memorable and always fun-loving. Just like Tim’s distinctive squinty smile and dimples. That notable squint showed up not only in his laughter, but as a watchful eye, an artistic assessment or an analysis on the golf course. He loved golf and there, smiles could be had as well. And most of you know that Tim was forgetful even way back when. A golf story has it that they all met up at a friend’s house and put the clubs and clothes in the car. Tim was so excited to golf, he forgot to put his clothes in the car. The funny part was that the prior year, he forgot to put his club in the car. That didn’t stop all the guys from including him on the annual excursion. Tim was a such gifted person and was many things to many people, a son, a husband, a father, a sibling, a friend, an artist. That’s a lot to be and share in just a few years on this earth. And also why he will be truly missed. We love you, Tim and say goodbye but just for now. Just a reminder that pursuant to NYS guidelines face coverings and social distancing is required and occupancy restrictions may significantly delay entry into the funeral home.

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Timothy P. Kubiak

October 4, 1964 - February 6, 2021